tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17932298208672215792024-02-19T07:12:39.684-08:00Lisa and Chris's JourneyAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01874883666784336458noreply@blogger.comBlogger133125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1793229820867221579.post-28050852487177510112018-07-30T12:37:00.001-07:002018-07-30T12:40:11.976-07:004 Months without our Blakely Ranee<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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I partnered up with fertilityiq and we raised $450 to donate to the bereavement fund at Integris. We donated the cuddle cot and $1100 at the beginning of July. It is really sad for me to think of a family using the cuddle cot, but I know the extra time they will be given with their precious baby will be amazing.<br />
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<br />Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01874883666784336458noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1793229820867221579.post-11805556815161624362018-04-14T16:31:00.001-07:002018-04-14T16:31:37.544-07:00Loved babyI have been reading a devotional called Loved Baby. I wanted to share a part with you. "He committed no sin, and no deceit was found in his mouth." (1 Peter 2:22) Jesus never sinned, yet he suffered. We all suffer in this world. Good and bad happens to us all. The bible is clear the loss of our little one is not because of any sin we have conducted, nor would it have been prevented had we been perfect. (Loved Baby devotional-searching Why)<br />
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The bible provides us instances after instance of people lamenting their concerns to God. There is none more profound than Jesus hanging on the cross: "Eli, Eli, lema sabachthani?" Which means My God, my God, why have you forsaken me?" Matthew 27:46 (Loved baby devotional-Searching Why)<br />
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Jesus felt abandoned and you probably feel abandoned. This reading in the devotional was God saying this is not your fault. Stop blaming yourself. Evil exists in our world. Each one of us go through bad and good. We will all deal with unfair deaths of loved ones, hurt, pain, etc. As much as we want to question God we will never get that answer in this lifetime on earth. Questioning and asking God doesn't mean you are a bad Christian. It means you are grieving. Take heart and cry out to our God. He is listening and he is covering you with a hug. God wants us to cry out and talk to him. Even when we are angry he is listening. "Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted." Matthew 5:4<br />
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I wish I could say that every pain, heartache, anger, jealousy, etc is gone from my heart, but it isn't. I am still working through my grieving process of my daughter Blakely Ranee. I know she is in heaven with Jesus and one day I will see her again. That gives me a peace. God is still helping me as I mourn my daughter. It really doesn't get easier. It gets different. I am forever changed because of Blakely. I was able to carry her and give birth. I met and held my beautiful daughter. I wish things were different, but I am honored to be her momma. She is a gift from God and I will be forever thankful for the time I had with her. I wish she was still growing and that I would bring her home, but I can't. I can't rewind time as much as I want to. I have to hold onto hope and God. I have to lean on God during the most difficult time of my life to get me through this. I couldn't get through this without God by my side. I hope the part of the devotional I shared gives you some peace. Check out the devotional because it really is a great one that I highly recommend.<br />
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01874883666784336458noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1793229820867221579.post-77338758778187995852018-04-14T09:25:00.001-07:002018-04-14T09:25:56.300-07:00What happens after a stillbirthFirst, this post may be a little TMI, but people around us experiencing a stillbirth need you to know. Your body does not know your baby died. We experience all the after effects of birth like anyone else. That includes bleeding and milk coming in. Let me tell you that was painful and made everything so emotional! The day before Blakely's service my boobs were so engorged and red. It hurt when Braxton bumped into me and when people hugged me. Our hormones are out of whack just like someone who has a baby born alive. Except we are also dealing with a very traumatic loss of our baby as well. The reason I share this is because people forget. People seem to forget that just because our babies have passed away that we still deal with the after effects of birth. Pain, bleeding, milk coming, recovering from either vaginal birth or C-section. One more reminder for anyone reading my blog who has experienced a stillbirth or infant loss. Do not let anyone tell you that you need to stop grieving and move on. Don't let anyone tell you that you can't talk about your baby or grieve openly. This is one of the most difficult things you may ever go through. You grieve the way you want! It will take a lifetime....we don't just recover from this.Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01874883666784336458noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1793229820867221579.post-21373338581570472902018-04-10T10:36:00.001-07:002018-04-10T10:36:52.598-07:00Appointment with Dr. K and headstoneYesterday we had an appointment with Dr.K. The placenta report came back fine so it was only the cord accident. It makes me glad nothing else was wrong, but sad for our Blakely. I hate that is happened because she should still be growing and getting bigger. He told us that he is obviously worried about our emotional well being as we went through a traumatic loss and we can never replace Blakely. So I don't know what our future holds, but one thing for sure is she will be forever missed! We are starting grief counseling so hopefully it helps with some of the grieving process.<br />
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If you are wondering how I am doing. I am ok. I still cry every day. Especially when I am alone. I cry every time I go to the cemetery. When I am alone that is when I talk to Blakely the most and pray to God. I have to pray and cry out to God because what we are going through is one of the most awful things I have ever gone through. Losing a child is hard. All my dreams and plans I had for Blakely will not happen.<br />
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I still have a few weeks before I am released to workout, but I am walking a 5k with a friend this month. The Remember the 10 run in Stillwater.<br />
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Yesterday we designed Blakely's headstone. We should get a proof in about a week. I can't wait to see it. I know it will be beautiful just like her. I am trying to find way to honor Blakely's name. Maybe raising money for stillborn research or cooling cots? I am still thinking on this.<br />
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Again, please let me know if you see butterflies. They remind us of Blakely. Please say her name. You can bring her up. We love her and miss her. Just because she is in heaven doesn't mean we can't talk about her. She will always be that missing piece in our hearts and have a special place in our lives.Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01874883666784336458noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1793229820867221579.post-55601095725118743422018-04-07T14:32:00.000-07:002018-07-30T12:38:10.977-07:00Our sweet Blakely RaneeAfter a long journey of IVF we had finally achieved pregnancy after 3 ivf cycles, 1 donor cycle, break then a 4th ivf cycle. We were so excited. We found out it was a little girl and we named her Blakely. At 23 weeks I went in for an heartbeat check to find out our Blakely's heart stopped. We were so devastated. Chris wasn't at this appointment with me. When the doctor said ok lets go check with an ultrasound my heart sank, but I tried to keep myself together and holding onto hope all was ok. When my doctor started the ultrasound I knew it wasn't ok. I didn't see the flicker of her heartbeat. Braxton was with me and my doctor turned to the nurse and asked her to take Braxton to get a sucker. At that moment I knew it was real and I just let out a huge cry and my hands went to my face. I remember saying to Dr. K that no this can't be happening we went through so many ivf cycles to get pregnant with her. He said I know I know and held me as I cried. I will never ever forget that day. The day my heart broke into a million pieces. I called Chris who immediately left work. The following Thursday we had an appt to confirm. I didn't even look at the ultrasound machines because I already knew. It was awful. I had to carry my Blakely for an additional week before I delivered her. The following Monday I started meds and delivered her on Tuesday March 27, 2018 at 7:15 pm. Dr. K checked Blakely out. He came to us and said she is beautiful and healthy its a cord accident. I started crying again because I was so angry. I was angry because this shouldn't have happened. I was admitted to the hospital at 6:00 am on Tuesday. The nurses were outstanding. They walked me through everything, kept my pain under control, and helped us with all the next steps that followed delivery. We were able to hold our sweet girl, take pictures, etc. She stayed in our room the whole night. The next day when we were released was so hard. It is very unnatural to leave your baby at the hospital and knowing you will never come back for them either. The funeral home picked Blakely up and we met with them the next day. They let us have some time with her again. I wanted pictures of her in the outfit I bought for her burial. It was a pink/lace gown with a bonnet. She was precious in it. Oh how I wish we didn't have to go through this. I miss my baby girl so much. It is hard to wrap my head around how this happened. Blakely was wanted, fought for, loved, and planned! If only my love could have saved my baby girl. I still don't know when I will be ok. I feel like I will never be ok. When you fight so hard for something and it is taken from you like this its hard to understand. It is hard not to be angry.<br />
The Saturday following her delivery March 31, 2018 we had Blakely's service. My pastor came to help with her service, we played the song Glory Baby, and released balloons for Blakely. It was a hard day, but a beautiful service for our perfect girl. I have gone to the cemetery almost everyday. I talk to her and cry. I miss her with every piece of myself. Her brother misses her. He doesn't understand at all. He use to kiss my belly every night and tell Blakely he loved her. We did read a special book and visited the cemetery with him. We talked about how Blakely is in heaven with Jesus. He doesn't fully understand, but enough to know she isn't coming home with us and mommy is no longer pregnant.<br />
I have really struggled with appetite. I cry a lot. I am triggered by a lot of things. I have cried in public. This is one of the hardest things I have ever gone through. Having a baby born stillborn is tough. I know some may think I should just get over this, but I can't. All I know is Blakely is my daughter and always will be.<br />
Blakely Ranee Mace we love you forever and ever! You are a beautiful baby girl. You were taken too soon and for that I will never understand. I will see you again in heaven one day. I can't wait to hold you again. <br />
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01874883666784336458noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1793229820867221579.post-13328250255118632002015-09-16T12:37:00.000-07:002015-09-16T12:37:01.146-07:00Safe Sleep for babiesA family in my neighborhood lost their little rainbow baby from something that was 100 percent preventable. This family struggled with multiple losses before getting pregnant with their rainbow. Then just like that this little baby was taken from his family and earth too soon. I want to share a bit of their story and about safe sleep practices for all the little babies.<br />
Their little guy went to a home daycare. The daycare worker let him sleep in his car seat and he was swaddled in the car seat. He was not buckled in his seat. The daycare worker didn't check on him for 1 1/2 hours. The door was closed and there was no monitor to listen/watch so little Shepard couldn't alert her that he was in any trouble. The daycare worker was distracted talking with a friend while he was in the other room sleeping. When she checked on him he wasn't breathing. He slid down in his seat and was suffocated. ( Positional asphyxia) You can read their whole story and learn safe sleep practices on their page. <a href="https://www.facebook.com/shepardswatchOK?fref=ts">https://www.facebook.com/shepardswatchOK?fref=ts</a><br />
Reading their story still brings tears to my eyes. My little guy is right around Shepard's age. Ali will share their story with you. If we all work together we can educate people on safe sleep practices for our smallest little miracles on this earth. I have already learned a lot from Ali pushing for safe sleep practices for babies. I hope that you will go to the link above and read their whole story. If you are a blogger would you share about Shepard and safe sleep practices? Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01874883666784336458noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1793229820867221579.post-49433724459071639022015-09-15T18:53:00.000-07:002015-09-15T18:53:02.201-07:00What is going on in our lives?I haven't blogged much about how things are going with us. I have thought and thought about what and how much I want to share about our little guy publicly on my blog. I don't want to make it private since I feel like someone may need to read our journey. I don't want to share too much information about my little guy either. I will say that he is 9 months and the happiest little boy ever. He is seriously the biggest blessing in our lives. He has taken so much sadness away from all the pain we experienced with infertility. I am a stay at home mom now. I thought I would miss teaching, but honestly I love spending my time with him and I am so glad we made the decision for me to stay home. Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01874883666784336458noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1793229820867221579.post-49932208923353327992015-02-26T14:34:00.001-08:002015-02-26T14:36:09.631-08:00Our adoption story...<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "Courier New", Courier, monospace;"><i><b>his birth mom so much..she made some choices during her pregnancy that we were not sure how it would effect him, but God protected our sweet boy and he is perfectly healthy. I am choosing to not go into detail about those choices because I don't want a lot of judgment against her. She made a selfless choice. She has had a hard life and unless you walked in her shoes we just can't sit back and judge her. He weighed 6 lbs and 3 ounces. It took 2 months to fully get rights terminated from both potential birth dads. It was a long wait, but it is finally over. Our adoption happened fairly quick overall. It is crazy to think about how it all worked out for us. Our case workers have been amazing and I love our agency so much! Adoption is really an amazing thing and I can't imagine our lives without our little miracle baby. He is truly a miracle baby to us! </b></i></span></span>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01874883666784336458noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1793229820867221579.post-15735429924817892822015-01-16T18:32:00.001-08:002015-01-16T18:32:29.299-08:00Our adoptionSorry I have not updated in so long! First off our adoption home study was approved on December 3, 2014. Then a birth mom picked our profile on December 4, 2014. Then our sweet blessing was born on December 14, 2014. We are not allowed to share details or pictures at this time. Later in time I will share more about our beautiful story. We are truly thankful that God picked us to be parents of this child and forever thankful for this opportunity that at times we never thought we would have. After a long and painful 3 1/2 years we finally have our little miracle baby. Until later... Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01874883666784336458noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1793229820867221579.post-29843687793712366692014-11-08T16:34:00.000-08:002014-11-08T16:34:13.282-08:00Treatments to adoption-what does it look like?<i><b><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: large;">Here lately, I have been blogging less. I have at times felt like I do not have a lot to share or no one will relate. It is the awkward time where I stand between the fertility treatment and adoption world. It is weird and different. So, I thought I am going to share how this time is feeling for me. </span></span></b></i><br />
<i><b><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: large;">First, the sadness of not experiencing pregnancy is still very real and sad. I am not sure if this sadness will ever go away till I am in my grave. I have met so many wonderful ladies in the infertility world that I love dearly. Recently it has been hard to relate to a lot of them because I feel so alone in this part of my journey. Most of the girls I was the closest to have either had babies or currently pregnant. I am so happy for them, but such a lonely feeling for me. Every day I am more and more ok with the thought that I may never have a genetic baby. I know that God has a perfect little baby out there for us. I can't wait till that day! </span></span></b></i><br />
<i><b><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: large;">Now, we are on the adoption side which I can say is not an easy process either! You feel so judged by their questions because they dig for any negative they can get to...at least that is how it feels. I can honestly say though after beginning the journey to adoption this is the happiest I have been in a very long time. I finally feel like we have a light at the end of the tunnel. Our infertility and treatments were some very difficult times that most will never fully understand. The sadness, depression, feel helpless, and no control over anything really sucked! With adoption it is hard, but I feel like we are moving forward at least. Now we just wait...and wait..and wait some more till the perfect gift is given to our family. </span></span></b></i><br />
<i><b><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: large;">I have heard so many times just adopt after failed treatments. First, please don't say that to someone struggling to conceive. Can you imagine the feeling this couple has at not being able to have a baby? It is awful. Also, adoption is not easy and it is expensive. Adoption is a wonderful thing, but it is not for everyone. Adoption is for us though and we are so happy to be on this journey to our sweet baby. We have been preparing our nursery and having fun doing it. </span></span></b></i><br />
<i><b><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: large;">I thought the comments I got during my fertility treatments were bad...well I have heard some pretty pathetic comments towards adoption too. Here are a few.. </span></span></b><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: large;">Oh, when you adopt you will get pregnant!</span></span><b><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: large;"> Wow, really? It isn't that easy people! </span></span></b><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: large;">I have been told that I am "lucky" that I don't have to experience pregnancy and delivery.</span></span><b><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: large;"> I don't know how anyone would think I was lucky..I think that makes me pretty unlucky actually. Could you imagine not having the children you have or never having a baby? No matter how awful your pregnancy or delivery was. </span></span></b><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: large;">Aren't you scared the birth-mom will steal your baby? <b>No, I am not. Open adoptions are great for all involved. Those mama's need our love and prayers so much. I pray for a love so fierce for my child's birth mom because that means so much to Chris and I. After attending our seminar I learned so much and took in so much. I cried and cried. You know, these women are giving the life of their baby to us and trusting us to parent. These women deserve to be loved and prayed for. They deserve to see pictures of their babies. They deserve to be respected. They do not deserve to be put down and told they made that choice. They made a decision that they felt/feel is best for their child. That takes a strong woman! </b></span></span><b><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: large;"> </span></span></b></i><br />
<br />Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01874883666784336458noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1793229820867221579.post-39016893617954487832014-11-01T15:30:00.000-07:002014-11-01T15:30:10.289-07:00Home-study <span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;">We had our home-study visit Thursday. It went great. We will receive a letter in about 3-4 weeks</span>. Then at that time we can be on the list for birth mom's to look at our profile. We are excited to see God's beautiful blessings come through. So excited for our journey to be parents. Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01874883666784336458noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1793229820867221579.post-88297779115447519712014-10-29T17:12:00.000-07:002014-10-29T17:12:16.063-07:00Home study processSorry for the lack of blogging. Teaching again really drains me. I have no energy. Haha. Anyway, so here is an update. Chris and I both have done our interviews, test, etc. and now we have our final home study/couple interview tomorrow. I am taking a personal day so I will have the whole day off tomorrow! Yay! After this we will be on the list for birth moms to look at our profile! Yay! Please pray that God has a great woman out there ready to choose us! :) We are limited on what we can share with this process, but I promise soon we will be able to share lots of pictures etc. Just pray this is a fast and smooth process. I know God has a wonderful plan for our lives and a child perfect for us! Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01874883666784336458noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1793229820867221579.post-17050720359553123832014-10-11T18:56:00.002-07:002014-10-11T18:58:07.054-07:00Photo book I wanted to share our photo book. Let me know if you have trouble viewing it. Let me know what you think about it! Thanks! <br />
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My sweet friend Emily made Chris and I a banner that says We're Adopting! My other sweet friend Julianne made the Growing in our Hearts board. I made the other one. I am so excited for our pictures!<br /><br />Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01874883666784336458noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1793229820867221579.post-32721095122694131242014-09-12T18:56:00.000-07:002014-09-12T18:56:03.886-07:00Home study update<i><b><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Yesterday I went to my doctor appointment. It went well and I really really really liked the doctor that Chris and I both saw. He shared his infertility and adoption story with me. It was nice having someone know the real pain of infertility and failed cycles. He said I know you've been through a lot and I hope your adoption journey is amazing as my wife's and mine. </span></span></b></i><br />
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<br />Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01874883666784336458noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1793229820867221579.post-31527648547395098722014-08-31T18:02:00.001-07:002014-08-31T18:02:13.759-07:00Adoption<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">We submitted our home study paper work on Friday. The adoption class is on October 10th. It will be about 8 weeks before our background checks come back. We are doing pictures later in the month of September. They will set up our interviews soon for our home study. </span></span>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01874883666784336458noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1793229820867221579.post-41770569558319762952014-08-14T18:58:00.001-07:002014-08-14T18:58:37.054-07:00Letting it all out...<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">I am going to be real honest that this post is hard to write. Ever since my third failed IVF I have struggled big time with my faith and many other things. I have felt so lonely and that God has forgotten about me. I have sat here and at times can't muster a prayer to talk to God. I feel guilty for my actions. I just can't get over it all and I just keep wondering why? What in the world did I do to deserve this? I am not writing this to be criticized for the way I feel or falling to my knees in my faith. I am writing this post to show my weakness and sadness...to show you that sometimes it takes a long time to heal. The other night on our walk I just cried to my husband about how I felt about his whole journey and just a feeling that God has forgotten about me and not listening to my crying and tears for three years. At times it really does feel this way. I know that God loves us and this is not the case at all...and I am trying to pull myself from this thought process and move on with positive thoughts. Forgive me for letting all my feelings out like this because I know this makes me very vulnerable to harsh comments. I just had to write how I have been feeling lately and give you the truth on how I have felt. One day at a time..it will get better. One day when I am holding my child a lot of the bad will be erased, but till then I will have times where I won't know how much longer I can make it through infertility. It is a hard road people..and frankly I am tired of being on this painful journey. </span></span><br />
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01874883666784336458noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1793229820867221579.post-37346862108383823782014-07-16T14:11:00.000-07:002014-07-16T14:11:36.006-07:00New beginnings<i><b><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;">I know I haven't given my blog attention or have I been keeping up with the blogs I follow. I need to get back on with writing and following my awesome blogs I follow. A lot of things have been changing for me lately. Some I will continue to keep to myself for now and others I will just go ahead and talk about.</span></span></b></i><br />
<i><b><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;">First, I am going back to teaching. After taking a year off I was offered a Kindergarten position. It was really hard for me to decide to leave the family I nanny for, but at this time going back to full time work is really the best for Chris and I for many reasons. I am really nervous, but excited. </span></span></b></i><br />
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<i><b><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;">Second, lately I have been pretty up and down on how I feel. Sometimes I feel a lone in this huge world of infertility. At times I feel like no one cares or remembers that I am still struggling. Why should they? It is not their journey. A lot of my support groups have gone on to pregnancy and having their children. They move on and enjoy their new blessings...as they should. Then there is some couples still fighting through this awful journey that so many don't realize the pain of. One day this will end and we will enjoy our blessings too, but until then some days I will have good days and sometimes I will have bad days. I try to have more good days than bad days though! </span></span></b></i><br />
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<i><b><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;">Today, I met my new nephew. That makes three nephews and four nieces for me! A friend sent me a private message and said, "You look great with a baby." This comment made me smile and truly made my day. I can't wait till I am holding my blessing that God chose especially for me and Chris. This wait and journey will be so worth it at that point. </span></span></b></i>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01874883666784336458noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1793229820867221579.post-82866879723541337372014-06-22T14:50:00.000-07:002014-06-22T14:51:21.572-07:00Sweet summertime<span style="color: #38761d;"><i><b><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "Courier New", Courier, monospace;">Hi, all! I know I haven't updated much, but right now there just isn't much to update on. I wish there was. I started af yesterday. I used oils his past cycle so a small part of me was really hoping they would help me get pregnant. LOL. I can tell you that one of the oils does really help with my cramps though.I just rub a drop or two on my abdomen and then I have a decrease of cramps. We have a little over 3 months till our adoption seminar and it is a two day class. The older I get the more times flies. It seemed so far away, but now it is coming up close. Last week was my due date of the little bean I miscarried. I did pretty well. Of course, I don't sit here and dwell on it, but sometimes I think about it. It made me a little sad to think I could be holding my baby instead of still sifting through infertility land...but we pick up the pieces and we move on. We become stronger and wait for God's timing and the little blessing(s) he has for us. One day we will look back and wonder how we made it through this journey through "hell" at times. At times, I do wonder how we make it. We just do. We pray, love each other, and become stronger in our faith. We deal with situations, judgement from others, and heartache constantly. Here we are though...still going strong and better than ever. You know why? Because, when you want something bad enough you keep fighting for it! No matter the judgement, people who talk about you, or what you have to do to get it. I am well aware of family who have judged our choices and paths we have taken to try to build a family, but until you walk in our shoes then you really have no idea. :) </span></span></b></i></span>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01874883666784336458noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1793229820867221579.post-16773816646060577742014-05-25T16:30:00.001-07:002014-05-25T16:30:40.117-07:00What's going on in the Mace family?<b><i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">Hello all! Again...I really don't have much to blog and update about. We recently received our home study paper work that we can slowly start working on. We have to submit it all together and there are parts we have to wait till our class. It is a lot of stuff to fill out and honestly it makes me overwhelmed, but it will all be ok.</span></span></i></b><br />
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<i><b><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">That is about all going on in the Mace family. :) </span></span></b></i>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01874883666784336458noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1793229820867221579.post-14733120706540167452014-05-13T17:56:00.000-07:002014-05-13T17:58:05.227-07:00Overcoming fear <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: large;">I feel like I am at a standstill with everything and don't have much to blog about. Today I read a friends blog about fear and it had me really thinking. Honestly, she is a lot better at blogging, writing, and standing in her faith than I am. I feel that sometimes I don't always lean on my faith in difficult times and really that comes from fear. Fear has really taken over my life. In the 3 years of fighting through infertility I have let fear take over...sadly. I have fears of never having children, never getting pregnant(I would be lying if I didn't tell you that I have this desire still), adoption fears, failed adoption, and the list really could go on. I don't think I am a bad person for having fear because really it is human nature, but as a Christian I know that God is my strength and I need to not have these fears. In a book I am currently reading it calls fear like cancer. Fear will eat away our faith! It is true it really does. When I have fear I start questioning and worrying about everything that is out of my control. We need to recognize the fear and let them go. I am trying my best to let go of the fears. I am not perfect and never will be so I know fear will creep in my life. My goal is to refocus the fears and lean on my faith more. I need to stop looking at all the wrong that "could" go wrong and believe! Believe that one day I will be rocking my sweet God chosen baby to sleep. Really that picture makes me a lot happier than the fears I have. The past few days I have some rough moments. Moments of sadness...especially with Mother's Day. Moments of sadness because my due date is coming up. Moments where I really wonder if God's plan is for me to be a parent. I have to let this all go. I have to trust God's words and promises to me. I will overcome this...I will be a mom soon. I will overcome these fears because God is my refuge and strength. God loves his people and he loves me. What a wonderful God we have. A loving God who will pull us through any situation in life. Everything in life isn't easy...we all have situations in life that tear us down, but God never leaves us! Isn't that awesome that God will never leave our sides even when we fail him daily!! What an awesome God we serve. </span></span>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01874883666784336458noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1793229820867221579.post-3115256142182107212014-05-08T15:13:00.002-07:002014-05-08T15:13:51.260-07:00Application accepted<i><b><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Our application was accepted to the agency we applied to. We have an invitation to attend the class, but it is not till October. The June class is already full. </span></span></b></i><br />
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